For men and girls the question "is he / she the right one" is very vital ...
for many reasons!
test HIS readiness to prove love from the very first seconds - stop delaying all important questions, love test and love action to a later time and do the very first seconds what matters to you for the remainder of time - a later awakening may be too late as later you may already be in the middle of a minor - ONE lifetime lasting - disaster !!
an hour with the wrong one may lead to a lifetime in disaster
an hour with the wrong one may lead to LOSS of chance to be free and ready FOR the right one
when the right one would be ready FOR you ... meaning a lifetime left with wrong ones only or in loneliness and solitude ... a lifetime starving for true love you missed just because of a one night or one moment sex adventure or short time pleasure with one of many possible and willing wrong ones!
MOST people - girls and men - who enter a wrong relationship KNOW very well from the very beginning that THIS is a relationship for one time or a few days, weeks or vacation only ...
yet they start THAT wrong relationship hoping "nothing happens" and all will end fine for all ...
however
all ends fine if all do all perfect and all prepare perfectly to BE fine anyone and all making mistakes WILL end up IN mistakes, IN wrong situations at the right time - wrong situations that prevent or obscure the right solution and right relationship WITH the right one ...
most of the time ONE wrong decision may be enough to totally screw up ONE entire life and the ONLY solution left for the MANY millions doing just that these very hours and days will be death by the end of the present incarnation and a new chance AFTER the present incarnation.
ALL need to acquire the spiritual and emotional maturity to MAKE the RIGHT decisions at any price and to be LOYAL to the innermost of their hearts at ANY cost - to make clear and CLEAN decisions of their hearts - for LOVE and nothing but love as the ONLY point to EVER consider when making a relationship decision.
one of the reasons to make wrong decision is the excessive hunger for true love, the longing for true happiness in life beyond the first few days.
strong or excessive hunger for love however may be the result of having spent too many incarnations, to many decades, centuries or millennium or life with the wrong one already - thus a reason more to be MORE careful when making your choices and decisions related to your heart's and soul's needs of love!!
All human long for lasting true love relationship with true deepest happiness. All humans have at least a subconscious memory of how it was once a LONG time ago before all creation split into pieces as a result of the occurrence and development of our ego - selfishness and desire to punish, to retaliate, to condemn ...
Each one has ONE partner for eternity
how to find the right one ?
where to find the right one ?
how to KNOW for sure if THAT one is the right one ... at least for this entire lifetime
and may be even the one for eternity ??
first of all:
be ready to accept the truth about the one you have in mind - even if the truth means he is the wrong one and thus to separate and to be free again for the one and only. As a girl you know that being with the wrong one may be terrible, having sex with the wrong one may instantly satisfy your current hunger for love - but minutes later - after sex - even make you feel bad because you KNOW that was nothing at all compared to the deep inside memories you have, compared to what you expected to be.
have the courage and be strong to say "you are the wrong one for me" or "i am the wrong one for you" at any given time within the first seconds, minutes, hours, days, weeks, months or years - at ANY given moment in life. be sure that you have to FOLLOW only your heart - you may NEVER be able to intellectually prove or justify such as decision or statement - YET you may KNOW that it is true and needs to be said AND even more importantly such an awareness NEEDS to be instantly converted into action by separating and thus by getting FREE again - free for life, free for learning, free for growing stronger in your heart to BE READY for true love with the right one as soon as HE / she occurs in your life.
a truly loving "wrong one" will instantly accept your decision and instantly leave in PEACE as best friend leaving you all freedom and wishing you all the best, love and bliss for your search for TRUE LOVE in YOUR heart, soul and eternal life.
the "wrong one" who will reject your decision, who will cry, whine or fight for your love ... he / she SURELY is selfish and very wrong in your love.
a truly loving one ALWAYS wants the very best FOR YOU and for ALL OTHERS before any personal happiness!!!
For a girl it is even far more horrible to think of getting pregnant from a wrong partner, a partner who has NO true love at all, a partner who only wanted a one night stand or short time sex and then go again.
how many times sex do you need to get pregnant ??
how much sex do you need to be pregnant ???
a "LITTLE" sex is all that is needed to BE pregnant - and even when taking birth control pills you still have a - minor yet, but nevertheless REAL - existing risk of getting pregnant!!
hence the question "is he the right one" is of vital importance to each girl and each man as well!!
sooner or later both for many reasons may want to have babies
having babies suddenly requires a DEEP look into your heart
just to find out that THE ONE who have / had sex with might have been "OK" for one times but never would match your true innermost desires and expectations for a LASTING relationship of true love, sweet love, sexy love, romantic love beyond the first few hours or days of being in love.
why wait for later to find out if NOW the very first seconds and minutes, you can find out what is of importance later on in life together ??
are YOU ready to have a family ?
HERE and NOW ??
if yes then YOU are ready for relationship
else
stay away from any man and first prepare yourself
mature
clean up all damage from earlier times
heal all "broken heart"
as a general rule for all relationship:
either both ARE ready from the VERY beginning or both may fail in a mutual relationship or become a constant source of emotional, spiritual and mental stress instead of a source of love, happiness and healing FOR each other!!!
here a few questions for the first minutes to ask HIM:
do you love babies / children ?
if he says YES spontaneously
then ask - how many ??
also ask when ?
"NOW, any time or LATER ???"
if he says NOW or anytime
then fine
if he says "later" - then he is far from ready for relationship OR he knows and feels already - at least subconsciously - that YOU are the wrong one for having children and he hopes later he may have the right one.
later may never occur in his / your mutual life here and now on earth - as later also requires HIM to be READY and prepared FOR a true love relationship - some men are or will be - others may have incarnations ahead to become mature for REAL love ... hence the latter ones only go from one wrong relationship through a divorce into the next wrong relationship ...
if the answers HE gives you touch your heart
tell him that you take NO birthcontrol/lovecontrol of any kind - of course that needs to be true !!
and tell him that you may get pregnant the very first time ...
how is his reaction ??
feel it ??
also look into his life, profession and private situation:
are YOLU free - totally FREE ??
is HE FREE - totally free for an instant and full love relationship ?
free from ex girlfriend or ex wife ?
free from contracts ?
free from parents ?? ... or still receiving money from parents and thus depending ON parents ??
free from contracts avoiding / preventing an instant and full love relationship ?
free from mortgages, free from loans, free from debts, free from credits of any kind ??
next questions:
ask about goal in life ask about attitude toward all those important points that MATTER to you - such as spirituality, career, political attitude if important, religious attitude if important, cultural attitude ...
keep in mind that you NEED to fully agree NOW from the very beginning in absolutely ALL aspects of life or all your life may be but a struggle, fight and stress - the opposite of what a true divine love relationship really is intended by God to be and eternally remain - a SOURCE of love, happiness and joy for ever and ever
finally:
be HONEST TO YOU - any doubt ALWAYS is a NO !!
any doubt always is proof of missing harmony
any doubt always is a WARNING!!
true love let's you FALL in love from the very beginning
true love let's you feel secure from the very first seconds and on and on in eternal life
true love FROM THE RIGHT ONE dissolves ANY and every doubt - reassures and makes you feel GOOD from the very first moment you meet
true love - from you as well as from HIM - lets you both instantly FALL in love and gives you the power of love to MOVE together and stay together from the very first night and on and on eternally
anything else is proof that one or both of you lack spiritual maturity for real love
relationship and than one or both of you may have to clean up the mess on life carried on so long and prepare for real love before even thinking about finding the right one.
when meeting the right one
- BOTH need to be prepared
- both need to be mature
- both need to be ready for ALL from the very beginning
- both need to be fully free from doubts, fears, damages, broken heart, ...
- both need to be ready to instantly prove true love beyond any even smallest doubts
- both need to be strong in life, in job, in body, mind and soul
- both need to have sufficient experience in love, job and life to make an instant and full
commitment FOR each other for the remainder of time
for many reasons!
test HIS readiness to prove love from the very first seconds - stop delaying all important questions, love test and love action to a later time and do the very first seconds what matters to you for the remainder of time - a later awakening may be too late as later you may already be in the middle of a minor - ONE lifetime lasting - disaster !!
an hour with the wrong one may lead to a lifetime in disaster
an hour with the wrong one may lead to LOSS of chance to be free and ready FOR the right one
when the right one would be ready FOR you ... meaning a lifetime left with wrong ones only or in loneliness and solitude ... a lifetime starving for true love you missed just because of a one night or one moment sex adventure or short time pleasure with one of many possible and willing wrong ones!
MOST people - girls and men - who enter a wrong relationship KNOW very well from the very beginning that THIS is a relationship for one time or a few days, weeks or vacation only ...
yet they start THAT wrong relationship hoping "nothing happens" and all will end fine for all ...
however
all ends fine if all do all perfect and all prepare perfectly to BE fine anyone and all making mistakes WILL end up IN mistakes, IN wrong situations at the right time - wrong situations that prevent or obscure the right solution and right relationship WITH the right one ...
most of the time ONE wrong decision may be enough to totally screw up ONE entire life and the ONLY solution left for the MANY millions doing just that these very hours and days will be death by the end of the present incarnation and a new chance AFTER the present incarnation.
ALL need to acquire the spiritual and emotional maturity to MAKE the RIGHT decisions at any price and to be LOYAL to the innermost of their hearts at ANY cost - to make clear and CLEAN decisions of their hearts - for LOVE and nothing but love as the ONLY point to EVER consider when making a relationship decision.
one of the reasons to make wrong decision is the excessive hunger for true love, the longing for true happiness in life beyond the first few days.
strong or excessive hunger for love however may be the result of having spent too many incarnations, to many decades, centuries or millennium or life with the wrong one already - thus a reason more to be MORE careful when making your choices and decisions related to your heart's and soul's needs of love!!
All human long for lasting true love relationship with true deepest happiness. All humans have at least a subconscious memory of how it was once a LONG time ago before all creation split into pieces as a result of the occurrence and development of our ego - selfishness and desire to punish, to retaliate, to condemn ...
Each one has ONE partner for eternity
how to find the right one ?
where to find the right one ?
how to KNOW for sure if THAT one is the right one ... at least for this entire lifetime
and may be even the one for eternity ??
first of all:
be ready to accept the truth about the one you have in mind - even if the truth means he is the wrong one and thus to separate and to be free again for the one and only. As a girl you know that being with the wrong one may be terrible, having sex with the wrong one may instantly satisfy your current hunger for love - but minutes later - after sex - even make you feel bad because you KNOW that was nothing at all compared to the deep inside memories you have, compared to what you expected to be.
have the courage and be strong to say "you are the wrong one for me" or "i am the wrong one for you" at any given time within the first seconds, minutes, hours, days, weeks, months or years - at ANY given moment in life. be sure that you have to FOLLOW only your heart - you may NEVER be able to intellectually prove or justify such as decision or statement - YET you may KNOW that it is true and needs to be said AND even more importantly such an awareness NEEDS to be instantly converted into action by separating and thus by getting FREE again - free for life, free for learning, free for growing stronger in your heart to BE READY for true love with the right one as soon as HE / she occurs in your life.
a truly loving "wrong one" will instantly accept your decision and instantly leave in PEACE as best friend leaving you all freedom and wishing you all the best, love and bliss for your search for TRUE LOVE in YOUR heart, soul and eternal life.
the "wrong one" who will reject your decision, who will cry, whine or fight for your love ... he / she SURELY is selfish and very wrong in your love.
a truly loving one ALWAYS wants the very best FOR YOU and for ALL OTHERS before any personal happiness!!!
For a girl it is even far more horrible to think of getting pregnant from a wrong partner, a partner who has NO true love at all, a partner who only wanted a one night stand or short time sex and then go again.
how many times sex do you need to get pregnant ??
how much sex do you need to be pregnant ???
a "LITTLE" sex is all that is needed to BE pregnant - and even when taking birth control pills you still have a - minor yet, but nevertheless REAL - existing risk of getting pregnant!!
hence the question "is he the right one" is of vital importance to each girl and each man as well!!
sooner or later both for many reasons may want to have babies
having babies suddenly requires a DEEP look into your heart
just to find out that THE ONE who have / had sex with might have been "OK" for one times but never would match your true innermost desires and expectations for a LASTING relationship of true love, sweet love, sexy love, romantic love beyond the first few hours or days of being in love.
why wait for later to find out if NOW the very first seconds and minutes, you can find out what is of importance later on in life together ??
are YOU ready to have a family ?
HERE and NOW ??
if yes then YOU are ready for relationship
else
stay away from any man and first prepare yourself
mature
clean up all damage from earlier times
heal all "broken heart"
as a general rule for all relationship:
either both ARE ready from the VERY beginning or both may fail in a mutual relationship or become a constant source of emotional, spiritual and mental stress instead of a source of love, happiness and healing FOR each other!!!
here a few questions for the first minutes to ask HIM:
do you love babies / children ?
if he says YES spontaneously
then ask - how many ??
also ask when ?
"NOW, any time or LATER ???"
if he says NOW or anytime
then fine
if he says "later" - then he is far from ready for relationship OR he knows and feels already - at least subconsciously - that YOU are the wrong one for having children and he hopes later he may have the right one.
later may never occur in his / your mutual life here and now on earth - as later also requires HIM to be READY and prepared FOR a true love relationship - some men are or will be - others may have incarnations ahead to become mature for REAL love ... hence the latter ones only go from one wrong relationship through a divorce into the next wrong relationship ...
if the answers HE gives you touch your heart
tell him that you take NO birthcontrol/lovecontrol of any kind - of course that needs to be true !!
and tell him that you may get pregnant the very first time ...
how is his reaction ??
feel it ??
also look into his life, profession and private situation:
are YOLU free - totally FREE ??
is HE FREE - totally free for an instant and full love relationship ?
free from ex girlfriend or ex wife ?
free from contracts ?
free from parents ?? ... or still receiving money from parents and thus depending ON parents ??
free from contracts avoiding / preventing an instant and full love relationship ?
free from mortgages, free from loans, free from debts, free from credits of any kind ??
next questions:
ask about goal in life ask about attitude toward all those important points that MATTER to you - such as spirituality, career, political attitude if important, religious attitude if important, cultural attitude ...
keep in mind that you NEED to fully agree NOW from the very beginning in absolutely ALL aspects of life or all your life may be but a struggle, fight and stress - the opposite of what a true divine love relationship really is intended by God to be and eternally remain - a SOURCE of love, happiness and joy for ever and ever
finally:
be HONEST TO YOU - any doubt ALWAYS is a NO !!
any doubt always is proof of missing harmony
any doubt always is a WARNING!!
true love let's you FALL in love from the very beginning
true love let's you feel secure from the very first seconds and on and on in eternal life
true love FROM THE RIGHT ONE dissolves ANY and every doubt - reassures and makes you feel GOOD from the very first moment you meet
true love - from you as well as from HIM - lets you both instantly FALL in love and gives you the power of love to MOVE together and stay together from the very first night and on and on eternally
anything else is proof that one or both of you lack spiritual maturity for real love
relationship and than one or both of you may have to clean up the mess on life carried on so long and prepare for real love before even thinking about finding the right one.
when meeting the right one
- BOTH need to be prepared
- both need to be mature
- both need to be ready for ALL from the very beginning
- both need to be fully free from doubts, fears, damages, broken heart, ...
- both need to be ready to instantly prove true love beyond any even smallest doubts
- both need to be strong in life, in job, in body, mind and soul
- both need to have sufficient experience in love, job and life to make an instant and full
commitment FOR each other for the remainder of time
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